if you're not on dads.cool my standard for approving follow requests is "would you ask me to pick you up from the airport". thank you for your time
I had someone call me after not speaking to me for a long time, and ask me to drive them to the airport basically right away... while my wife was in labor with our first child. Just because someone would ask doesn't mean they should.
(For the record, I said "No.")
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